my ex and i are getting back together but he’s still with his other girlfriend who just had her baby?
Friday, January 29th, 2010 at
2:45 pm
we’re really in love and have been since seventh grade. he took my virginity and i basically took his and i know that he really loves me because of how much he’s done for me. he’s had several other girlfriends since me and him broke up and he’s cheated on every one with me. i know what we have is real and i don’t want to hear any bullshit about him using me or any of that. but the problem is we starting getting back together about three weeks ago and his girlfriend was pregnant at the time. she then had her baby and we’ve continued to see each other, but now she’s back at school and he hasn’t broken up with her yet because she’s only 15 and he’s her everything and she just had this kid and he has to be very fragile with her and she’s really insecure and stuff right now but i promised him i’ll wait for him and i will. it just hurts so bad to see them together at school and i have to pretend. i’m not even allowed to talk to him because she knows our past. but honestly, me and him are older than her and we really do belong together and i’m not going to leave him. i just don’t know how to make the pain subside. basically everyone knows except for her and he told me to give him three weeks maximum, but i’m also kind of scared he’ll fall back in love with her. right now he says he doesn’t love her and i know it’s true and that he’s only staying with her for the baby but i really feel like i don’t know what to do with myself. any advice on how to deal with this better? please don’t be mean and call me a slut or anything because you probably don’t understand how much i love this boy and how much i want to spend my life with him and i know what i’m feeling so don’t say i’m too young either. i’m just so scared and always on the verge of tears. what do i do? he told me straight up right now her feelings are more important than mine because her is practically going to end when he leaves her and i understand that and i told him i’m not in a rush but it just hurts so bad but i don’t want to lose him and i refuse to. should i talk to him and try to make him understand that i need him to be with me? i know he’s not fooling around with her or anything so it’s not that i’m worried of him ‘cheating’ or whatever that would be considered, my heart is just totally breaking and i need him so bad. i don’t want to see this girl be destroyed but i want him to be with me and me only so bad. and it’s not that i can’t talk to him about my feelings, we’ve somewhat discussed this before, but i don’t want him to feel like i’m rushing him or pressuring him and shit like that. please help me.
getting back together
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I hope this poor girl with his kicks beats the crap out of him and you! He sounds just like my peace of crap ex! And when you have his kid he’s gonna leave you too! You don’t see it now but when yor older you’ll think your such an idiot. Teenagers are so gulible. You need to leave his messy @ss alone before he screws your whole life into the ground, like he did with the girl he’s with now. I feel sorry for her.
Is this his baby she is having? If so you and he are both pretty shi*** people. Rediculous. You need to leave him alone. He obviously doens’t really want to be with you or he would have left her already.
How would you feel if you were his girlfriend? You need to think of other people’s feelings other than your own. Think about it: You have just given birth to your boyfriend’s baby and he leaves you and the baby for his ex. Do you know how depressing that feels? When you have his child, he’ll probably do the exact same thing to you.
I wish you both the best of luck, it will all just end up in this huge mess, I know it’s not going to last.
OK REALLY?!?!? HES HAVING A KID WITH A 15 year old!!!!!!!!!!!!! that’s just sad!!!! How can u like such weirdeo like no offense. I think start new find someone else. His life is over he has a kid to take care of for life, if you like him GET OVER HIM!!!!!!! Sorry its reality he cant just ditch he’s kid thats not they way this go.
Why do you want to go out with him it doesn’t even sound like he really likes you. He probably just wants to use you!!!
I hope you burn in hell.
She’s 15, just had a baby and you’re taking away the father?
I actually hate you.
Oh, and for the record, you’re WAYY to clingy, he’s gonna get sick of it sooner or later and dump you.
Bit of a minor text wall. remember each paragraph should encompass one idea. But onto your question.
Is the baby his? If it is he now has a responsibility too that child too give him/her the most normal upbringing he can provide. Which means he has too be in that child’s life as a father figure not just you have a father but he’s never around because all that does is breed resentment.
Also if the baby isn’t his did he get together with her before she knew she was pregnant. In that case he is more of a father too that child than whatever d-bag got her pregnant. I say this because as a baby is growing in the womb it becomes used too hearing the voices of it’s mother and father.
Think of this by getting back together with you is he ignoring his responsibilities. Or is he genuinely ready too move on from her.