How many people do you know of who split up but later down the road ended up getting back together?
Thursday, February 11th, 2010 at
7:51 am
I’m still in love with the woman who has my 2 kids but she walked away from me. We were together 3 years.I’m hoping she will come to her senses some day and realize she left a good man. So how many people do you know of who split up but later down the road ended up getting back together?
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my husband and i. we also have 2 kids. Why dont you talk to her?
only one my x husband after our nine year marriage he went back to his first wife and remarried her.
my friend that married a guy that was half her age and he was a no good man and she got back with him…if i divorce my hubby thats all i want.. we arnt getting back together..
I know of a couple. They dated during high school but she always had this other guy who liked her. Sometimes she was with the other guy and sometimes with my friend. He could not get over her even though we all told him she could not remain true to him. They ended up going separate ways and dating other people for several years. Somehow they got back together and even got married. It was such a surprise, but I guess people can change for the better when they grow up.
I know many! Including myself
You never know where life will take you. It sounds as if you really love this woman with your heart and soul. That is something to be treasured. I don’t have an answer except to have faith. Is there anything that you can think of that she would like to have help with? Does she need time to herself where you can arrange a special day for her while you have a day out with the kids? Women leave sometimes because we feel as if we are not appreciated, listened to or completely ignored. I am not sure what the situation was and do not want to pry. But have faith and only time and patience will tell. Women love to be pampered and not necessarily with monetary things. Try to think of something that would catch her by surprise and make her days brighter. It may just work out for you if you do. Such a sweet thing. Good-luck!
I don’t think it happens too often, or that if it does, that it ends up being good for very long.
My husband and I were dating for a while, broke up, and 5 years later he asked me out. We eventually worked it all out and got married, but it took me a LONG time to feel secure with him.
I hope it works out for you, but I wouldn’t hold my breath if I were you. It may just be time to move on.
I did it, but honestly it was like a re-play of our marriage all over again…including the part where I left. We both did feel better, however, about really realizing it was never going to work.
Good luck! I’m sorry for your pain!
My parents reunited after ten years apart and living in two separate countries. It was turbulent and traumatic. They hadn’t resolved many of their issues and fought a lot.
Don’t hold your breath. Women with kids think long and hard before leaving their man. She likely thinks she has a good reason.
I met the man of my dreams back in 1988 and we were involved the first time for 8 and one-half years until he did something I was really furious about in 1997. I broke it off with him and he would show up trying to see me. We went to lunch and he told me he wished things were back the way they were; I just didn’t think it was a great idea, seeing that what he did hurt me very deeply. We stayed apart for 6 and 1/2 years. I was in a relationship for three years with this man, and the end result was that he was murdered in 2003. One night I sat around thinking and thought about my former love. I called him up and to my surprise, he came to the phone like nothing ever went wrong between us. He came over to my place and we became an item for the second time around. We’ve been back together 5 years now. If you want her back, give her some time. Sometimes love means having to let go. If you get back together, it was meant to be; otherwise, sobeit.
I did. My wife and I were separated for 3 1/2 years. I was to blame. I was out of control. I was arrested, drinking, on and on. I filed for divorce and then withdrew it. Only then, through biblical counseling with our pastor did my marriage come to restoration. Secular counselers had told my wife to divorce me.It was hard, very hard and painful. Today, 8 years later, we both couldn’t ask for a better marriage.
We broke up for three months then picked right back up where we left off but the trust factor is not there.