we’re really in love and have been since seventh grade. he took my virginity and i basically took his and i know that he really loves me because of how much he’s done for me. he’s had several other girlfriends since me and him broke up and he’s cheated on every one with me. i know what we have is real and i don’t want to hear any bullshit about him using me or any of that. but the problem is we starting
getting back together about three weeks ago and his girlfriend was pregnant at the time. she then had her baby and we’ve continued to see each other, but now she’s back at school and he hasn’t broken up with her yet because she’s only 15 and he’s her everything and she just had this kid and he has to be very fragile with her and she’s really insecure and stuff right now but i promised him i’ll wait for him and i will. it just hurts so bad to see them together at school and i have to pretend. i’m not even allowed to talk to him because she knows our past. but honestly, me and him are older than her and we really do belong together and i’m not going to leave him. i just don’t know how to make the pain subside. basically everyone knows except for her and he told me to give him three weeks maximum, but i’m also kind of scared he’ll fall back in love with her. right now he says he doesn’t love her and i know it’s true and that he’s only staying with her for the baby but i really feel like i don’t know what to do with myself. any advice on how to deal with this better? please don’t be mean and call me a slut or anything because you probably don’t understand how much i love this boy and how much i want to spend my life with him and i know what i’m feeling so don’t say i’m too young either. i’m just so scared and always on the verge of tears. what do i do? he told me straight up right now her feelings are more important than mine because her is practically going to end when he leaves her and i understand that and i told him i’m not in a rush but it just hurts so bad but i don’t want to lose him and i refuse to. should i talk to him and try to make him understand that i need him to be with me? i know he’s not fooling around with her or anything so it’s not that i’m worried of him ‘cheating’ or whatever that would be considered, my heart is just totally breaking and i need him so bad. i don’t want to see this girl be destroyed but i want him to be with me and me only so bad. and it’s not that i can’t talk to him about my feelings, we’ve somewhat discussed this before, but i don’t want him to feel like i’m rushing him or pressuring him and shit like that. please help me.
getting back together
